Can I call a girl cute even if I have a girlfriend? (2024)

Anonymous

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This girl messaged me on Facebook (old I know) and we started talking i think she's pretty cute. If I tell her that she's cute over text Is that cheating or? She lives no where near me lol

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Rhiv

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Telling someone they are cute isn't cheating...however, it isn't appropriate to be conversing/flirting with other women without your girlfriend knowing.

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Zombie

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A good rule of thumb is that if you wouldn't do it when your significant other is watching you shouldn't do it when they aren't.

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Weirdo

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Agree with Zombie. If you wouldn't do it in the presence of your girl or feel that you have to hide it from her, then don't.

Wilde

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Sure you can call her cute, at your own peril.

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zesty

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girls and boys tend to get jealous if their boyfriend/girlfriend shows interest in another person and could cause a bad fight and breakup. even if your girlfriend/boyfriend seems like he/she doesn't mind, there will always be a hint of jealousy and anger

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wytchinghours

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Why are you talking to another girl on FB behind your gfs back? If she knew about it and was okay with it you wouldn't be asking on here. What if this was reversed and your gf was talking to some guy behind your back and telling him he was cute.

I have see people break up over things on Facebook over and over on these boards over the years.................

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Anonymous

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@wytchinghours

I didn't flirt with her at all or call
her cute cuz I couldn't do that behind my gfs back I stopped talking to her

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mossgard

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, You can call her cute, you can call her on the phone.

But why would you, you have a girlfriend.

Anytime you think one is not enough.... remember, two is too many..

(somebody write down that i said that. thanks). .....

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Anonymous

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Thanks, I didn't flirt with her at all

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eWicked

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Be careful. This cute girl may write things on your wall that you may not want your girlfriend to see. And ditto her behavior around you in public.

You may be able to wind this cute girl up but not be able to control her.

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Kingslayer

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Why would you tell her that? If you are flirting with the idea of testing the waters, break up with your gf first.

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AVoiceofReason

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although I do not think it is appropriate to call another girl cute while you have a gf. (she probably already knows she is so what's the point?), I am more curious as to why you have her phone number? if your texting, that can easily blur the lines of cheating and possibly become emotional cheating. if you want to keep your gf, you need to stop talking to her.

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Cooldude1029

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I think it’s fine. As long as you don’t flirt with her, it’s fine. If you call another girl cute, just make sure she knows that you have a girlfriend and that it’s kust a compliment, not flirting.

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Bri305

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Yes, it is cheating. It may seem as if you like somebody else other than her. There shouldn’t be a reason for you to call another girl cute if you already have a wife or girlfriend. The only person you should be calling cute, Pretty etc Is your girlfriend or wife. You call her those things for a reason. I am only 15 but at least I know what I’m talking about. If you truly love your girlfriend or your wife you wouldn’t call any other person pretty, cute etc. is your girlfriend or wife. You call her those things for a reason. I am only 15 but at least I know what I’m talking about. If you truly love your girlfriend or your wife you wouldn’t call any other person pretty, cute etc. not only is it cheating, but you want your girlfriend to know that you’re loyal and faithful. I hope you can understand now.

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Can I call a girl cute even if I have a girlfriend? (2024)

FAQs

Is it okay to say cute to a girl? ›

"Cute" isn't a forbidden word, and some women even strive for a “cute look” or enjoy the compliment. Yet, most women in general do not want to be called "cute" in any of the above situations. The best advice you can take is to wise in your words when you talk to women.

Is calling someone cute while in a relationship cheating? ›

Telling someone they are cute isn't cheating... however, it isn't appropriate to be conversing/flirting with other women without your girlfriend knowing. A good rule of thumb is that if you wouldn't do it when your significant other is watching you shouldn't do it when they aren't.

Is getting called cute by a girl a good thing? ›

Yes, it's very good. It means they find you both attractive and non threatening, easy on the eyes and easy to be around. These are qualities which just come naturally to you. You are authentically appealing so you don't have to have any fake attitude or bluster; you can just be yourself and enjoy being yourself.

Is it okay for my boyfriend to call other girls cute? ›

It also depends on how your boyfriend acts on it and what he does. If he's outright talking about how hot other girls are in front of you and his friends, it shows his level of maturity. It's important to vocalize how you feel about this and set your boundaries.

Is it rude to call a woman cute? ›

Granted, women have greater things to worry about than being called cute, but I will always find it offensive. For starters, it's condescending and reductive — and I'm not the only one to think so. Game of Thrones actress Maisie Williams has also complained of feeling 'limited' by the C-word.

How to tell a girl she's cute? ›

If you can't stop thinking about how hot she looks:
  1. You look so pretty baby. ...
  2. Your nails came out so good! ...
  3. You're so gorgeous. ...
  4. You're so gorgeous. ...
  5. You're so beautiful they need a new word for beautiful. ...
  6. It is literally unfair how hot you look rn.
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Is calling someone cute flirty? ›

Lots of people use “cute” as a normal, flirty compliment, but occasionally people say it in a way that's belittling and dismissive. If someone says it like that, they're trying to make you seem small, silly, and innocent, even though you're capable and strong.

Is texting flirty cheating? ›

Is flirting on text cheating? If your partner considers flirting over text cheating, or if your messages would upset them, then yes — it may be considered cheating in your relationship.

Is texting a girl while in a relationship cheating? ›

And let us clarify: We don't mean sending off a text to a member of the sex (or sexes) you're attracted to and asking how they're doing. We mean full-on flirting—or more. Tech is a big part of our bonding experience with our partners, which is why texting another person can be considered emotional cheating.

What defines a girl as cute? ›

adjective. Something or someone that is cute is very pretty or attractive, or is intended to appear pretty or attractive.

What if a boy calls you cute? ›

No it means that he thinks you cute and adorable that is good maybe even better then being called beautiful or gorgeous. Believe me girl I know. And when he calls you cute it means: Wow this girls got cute eyes and a cute face and a cute personality.

Can you call someone cute while in a relationship? ›

Yes it is ok to notice someone is cute. It is not ok. To comment on it, or flirt with them or send messages about it. Nor make your partner fell awkward about it, in any way.

Is it weird for a guy to say a girl is cute? ›

Being called cute can mean that he likes your quirky personality or your subtle demeanor or maybe even both. So, by no means is cute a bad thing to be called.

Is it weird to call your bf cute? ›

It may make him feel loved.

“Cute” is a sign of affection that lets a guy know you like and care about him. Men are usually complemented less than women, so even a one-syllable word like “cute” can make them feel important and good about themselves. It also shows that you view him as kind and caring.

Can a guy say cute to a girl? ›

If a guy calls you cute, it means he thinks you're amazing, inside and out. He's attracted to both your appearance and your personality. If he frequently says you're cute and smiles or blushes when he does it, he's probably romantically interested in you.

Can cute be used for a lady? ›

Cute is just a more polite way to describe a girl with a pretty face who is also sexually attractive.

Does cute mean not attractive? ›

Your mistake is in assuming that “cute” implies less attractiveness than “hot.” “Cute” is just a less sexually aggressive version of “hot.” It's really just semantics. If someone says you are cute they are saying you are attractive.

Is it okay to call a girl cute over text? ›

Be genuine and straightforward.

Your text is most likely to move her if it's coming from the heart. You might say: “You know, I think you might be the prettiest girl I've ever talked to. I just can't get over how cute you are.”

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