Anonymous
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This girl messaged me on Facebook (old I know) and we started talking i think she's pretty cute. If I tell her that she's cute over text Is that cheating or? She lives no where near me lol
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Rhiv
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Telling someone they are cute isn't cheating...however, it isn't appropriate to be conversing/flirting with other women without your girlfriend knowing.
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Zombie
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A good rule of thumb is that if you wouldn't do it when your significant other is watching you shouldn't do it when they aren't.
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Weirdo
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Agree with Zombie. If you wouldn't do it in the presence of your girl or feel that you have to hide it from her, then don't.
zesty
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girls and boys tend to get jealous if their boyfriend/girlfriend shows interest in another person and could cause a bad fight and breakup. even if your girlfriend/boyfriend seems like he/she doesn't mind, there will always be a hint of jealousy and anger
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wytchinghours
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Why are you talking to another girl on FB behind your gfs back? If she knew about it and was okay with it you wouldn't be asking on here. What if this was reversed and your gf was talking to some guy behind your back and telling him he was cute.
I have see people break up over things on Facebook over and over on these boards over the years.................
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Anonymous
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@wytchinghours
I didn't flirt with her at all or call
her cute cuz I couldn't do that behind my gfs back I stopped talking to her
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mossgard
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, You can call her cute, you can call her on the phone.
But why would you, you have a girlfriend.
Anytime you think one is not enough.... remember, two is too many..
(somebody write down that i said that. thanks). .....
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eWicked
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Be careful. This cute girl may write things on your wall that you may not want your girlfriend to see. And ditto her behavior around you in public.
You may be able to wind this cute girl up but not be able to control her.
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Kingslayer
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Why would you tell her that? If you are flirting with the idea of testing the waters, break up with your gf first.
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AVoiceofReason
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although I do not think it is appropriate to call another girl cute while you have a gf. (she probably already knows she is so what's the point?), I am more curious as to why you have her phone number? if your texting, that can easily blur the lines of cheating and possibly become emotional cheating. if you want to keep your gf, you need to stop talking to her.
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Cooldude1029
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I think it’s fine. As long as you don’t flirt with her, it’s fine. If you call another girl cute, just make sure she knows that you have a girlfriend and that it’s kust a compliment, not flirting.
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Bri305
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Yes, it is cheating. It may seem as if you like somebody else other than her. There shouldn’t be a reason for you to call another girl cute if you already have a wife or girlfriend. The only person you should be calling cute, Pretty etc Is your girlfriend or wife. You call her those things for a reason. I am only 15 but at least I know what I’m talking about. If you truly love your girlfriend or your wife you wouldn’t call any other person pretty, cute etc. is your girlfriend or wife. You call her those things for a reason. I am only 15 but at least I know what I’m talking about. If you truly love your girlfriend or your wife you wouldn’t call any other person pretty, cute etc. not only is it cheating, but you want your girlfriend to know that you’re loyal and faithful. I hope you can understand now.
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