Looking for tips on how to look more feminine? Not sure where to start on how to be more feminine and soft? Well, look no further! In this blog post, I’ll share with you some of the top ideas and techniques that will help you increase your femininity.
From tips to look more feminine naturally to ideas on how to make your face look more feminine, you will want to read it till the very end – there are so many important tips you don’t want to miss! Plus, they don’t have to cost a fortune!
What Makes Someone Look More Feminine?
There are physical features that differentiate between a masculine from a feminine appearance. Features such as a delicate jawline, fuller lips, rounder cheeks, long eyelashes, more curves tend to be associated with looking more feminine.
However, it’s important to note that these traits don’t define your femininity and attractiveness, there are other ways to express and increase your femininity.
1. Clothes
Ditch the tomboy look and go for a more feminine outfits. It really is a no brainer, if you want to look more feminine, you have to dress more feminine. Look for feminine outfit details like bows, lace, ruffles in clothes or accessories and opt for fabrics such as lace, silk, cashmere. Get your clothes tailored to fit your body!
You also want to opt to have more feminine colours like pink, yellow, red in your wardrobe. Subscribe to this blog to get more tips on how to dress, look and feel more feminine.
2. Jewellery
Dainty jewellery always look more elegant than chunky over-the-top statement jewellery. Keep in mind that less is more when it comes to accessorising. Invest in an every day necklace, a bracelet and watch to go with everything in your wardrobe.
3. Nails
Get your nails done on a regular basis is an easy way to look more feminine without makeup. Stick to a decent length, no 2 inch nails! Pick colours that look good against your skin tone. I love to stick to neutrals and pinks. Whatever you do, do not walk around with chipped nail polish, it is better to have no polish at all.
4. Toes
To make your feet look more feminine, get your toes done. Preferably in the same colour as your nails. Try go get a pedicure at least once a month to avoid having to walk around with crusty feet.
Another alternative would to give yourself a professional pedicure at home. My go to mani/pedi are usually French pedicures – honestly there’s no better feeling that being pampered and taken care of.
5. Wear heels
Start opting for shoes with heels, no matter the season. Start practising wearing heels, practise your walk and strut, make use of your God given hips and don’t forget to sway them while you’re at it too.
Wearing heels is empowering when you get the hang of it! Men love to watch our curves while we walk by too so if you want to be more feminine for guys (not that I recommend that), this is a simple trick on how to do it.
6. Hair
Get your hair done! I don’t know about you but anytime I’m not really feeling myself or I don’t feel pretty, changing up my hair or just getting my hair done seems to do the trick.
If you don’t know how to do your hair, I suggest learning how to on Youtube if you are on a budget but if you are after the soft girl life, going to a hair salon will save you a lot of time and stress.
Sidenote: Incase you are wondering how to be more feminine for guys, men typically find longer hair more attractive and ofcourse some wouldn’t mind it really short as long as you can pull it off!
7. Makeup
With makeup always have in mind that less is more, so no over the top clownish eye shadow combinations, no cakey foundations, or extremely harsh bold lips or eyelashes that look like you could fly with them.
The point is to enhance your features without being extreme. As a general rule, the softer the makeup look, the better. When I had no idea on how to do my makeup, I would go into stores like MAC or Fenty and I got my makeup done for free (I bought something ofcourse 😉 ).
8. Lashes
If you want to transform your look, wear semi-permanent lashes. Stick to classic or mixed sets if you like a bit of drama, but never go too long as that can get you unwanted attention. If you can’t afford those type of lashes then you can always get good quality strip lashes NOT the cheap ones, I’d rather you use mascara instead.
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9. Skin care
A regular skincare routine is a must. Find a routine that works for you and stick with it – cleanse, tone, and moisturise daily for a healthy glow. If doing the Korean 10 step routine works for you, then that’s great! But honestly you could get flawless skin with just the basics.
As a general rule always wear sunscreen, even when you are indoors. Make sure to exfoliate 2x a week, moisturise and try to get your beauty rest. Emphasis on the try!
10. Workout
Going to the gym can cause dread to most people. It’s one of those things that you know you should do but avoid it anyways.
However if you want to be more attractive and be more confident as a woman, carve out some time to start working out. Start with small goals that eventually lead to bigger goals but the key is to stay consistent. You don’t need to be skinny to be attractive, but you do need to workout to look and feel your best.
11. Hygiene
Make feminine hygiene a necessity. I will be writing more about feminine hygiene routine and products every girl needs. Make sure to incorporate a self care routine that includes grooming areas like your intimate area, underarms, and other parts.
Attend to hair removal needs such as shaving or waxing, plucking any unwanted hair, and addressing facial hair if necessary.
The most important tip is to make sure you smell good! If your coochie stinks, go to the hospital to get yourself checked, sometimes your lady bits need maintenance too.
12. Get feminine inspiration
Find out what you love about their style, hair, makeup, take elements of it and make it yours. Don’t be an outright copycat, the point of this is not to compare yourself to other women or berate yourself, the point of this exercise is to learn more about what you like and what your style personality is.
I personally adore Rihanna, she is my inspiration! She is bold, attractive, and a boss! I look at Lori Harvey for style inspiration as well!
If you really want to know how to look more feminine for guys, chances are if a woman has caught your eye, then certainly she caught another man’s attention too.
How Can I Look More Feminine Naturally?
14. Smile More
A smile is the most beautiful thing a woman can wear. It radiates positivity, warmth, and approachability.
15. Eat Healthy
You are what you eat! If you fill your body up with junk food, you most like will feel like junk, your body needs the right nutrients to glow inside out. Eating a balanced diet filled with fruits, vegetables and lots of water can do wonders for your skin, hair, overall health and confidence.
16. Embrace Your Body
We all have body insecurities. I wouldn’t advice anyone to get surgery but it really is a personal preference.
If you don’t want to get surgical enhancements, you can learn to love your body exactly as it is. Exercise is one of the best ways to look more feminine naturally because you feel confident in your feminine body.
Even if you are considering getting surgical enhancements, you will still need to workout to maintain it.
17. Move Gracefully
The way you move can reflect a feminine presence and appeal. Your posture can say a lot about you, so be sure that it ALWAYS conveys confidence.
Practise having your shoulders moderately back, chin slightly raised and stand tall. Use soft hand gestures, speak slowly and when in a seated position, put your legs together. The right posture can make you look confident, graceful and yes, look more feminine.
This video will show you how to sit, stand and pick dropped items elegantly.
How Can I Increase My Femininity?
Increasing your femininity is more of an inside job than it is an outside job. As you heal your feminine energy, you will naturally begin to radiate feminine energy, it starts from within. I highly recommend healing any trauma you many have by doing shadow work with the help of a therapist.
Femininity is more than just putting a nice dress on. It definitely isn’t about looking more feminine for guys or male attention. It is more about how you want to feel about yourself.
Here are some articles that you will help you get started on healing your feminine energy.
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